The deck will ALWAYS look different depending on who does it and when. Even the same person will do it differently 6 months from now.
So, when there’s disagreement, you’re better off seeking alignment rather than engaging in a tug of war. There is no such thing as the right answer because, just like everything else in life, it’s not black-and-white. What was right back then could be wrong now. It depends on the situation and the people at the time.
It’s ALIGNMENT that brings all hands on deck and causes forward motion.